"Silence is the basis of speech; silence is broken to create speech and silence
is created to close speech - an eternal cyclic process."
Above all, it is
important to mention that the study made in this context cannot be seen as
representative because the low number of participants cannot give a cross-section
of the whole society. Nevertheless, this paper has tried to analyse and evaluate
the meaning behind the silences and the unsaid.
What do people really mean when
they say something and how they try to avoid saying something they maybe think to
be inappropriate. As we could see, euphemisms are a common means to disguise and
palliate statements in order to keep within the rules of politeness.
But the attempt to save our face through politeness violates the Gricean maxims
which were originally designed for conversation analysis but can be applied in our
context, as well.
Moreover, we examined the creation and use of stereotypes and
the sensitive topic of disabilities which still seems to be a taboo which people
feel uncomfortable talking about. In this context, we also focused on hesitations
as a means to avoid and get around silence.
Besides, attention was paid to the analysis of language concerning gender.
Do women really express in a completely different way compared to men or is
societal behaviour responsible for it, having formed us to what we are today?
Concluding, in more ways than one, silence receives importance as a means of
communication.
The Bible says that
"In the beginning was the Word" (John 1:1) but
before there was silence.